It is so frustrating that you want to be with a particular person but your shyness gets into the way. You do not know what to do or what to say and you often blew the opportunity to meet someone amazing because of your shyness.
Overcoming shyness with men can be very difficult in the beginning but of course you have to take the first step and do something about your problem. Here are some tips to help you gain confidence around men.
Do not pressure yourself and start slow. Overcoming shyness with men can be a long process and you cannot rush yourself on this. So accept that you need to take it slow. You can start by just a simple smile and a small talk. Take baby steps to be able to overcome your shyness.
Anyone can do this so you can do this too. Do not pressure yourself but just smile and learn how to engage in a small talk. If you succeed in making baby steps, you will eventually learn how be at ease around men.
Constant practice makes it perfect. Maybe to some people socializing with the opposite sex is just a normal activity but for you it is a struggle. Do not worry because constant practice can help you improve your social skills around men. Practice with a friend. Practice eye contact and engaging in small conversation.
Act as if you are confident. If overcoming shyness with men is difficult at first, then learn to fake it. Act as if you are confident and you will eventually find yourself not acting anymore. You will soon learn to be truly confident around men.
Be comfortable with yourself. If you are shy because you are worried about your looks, the way you dress, the way you speak, etc. then learn to be comfortable with your skin and be yourself. The easiest thing to do is to be yourself to be comfortable around men. It is a good feeling to be accepted for who you are than pretend to be someone you are not.
Overcoming shyness with men maybe difficult at first but it is not impossible to develop confidence and attract men.